I think it is safe to say that these days, people have learned not to take things for granted. For those of us who have been fortunate and are in good health, Thanksgiving seems like the right time to take notice. It seems every time you turn on your television or computer there is news of yet another tragic event. Between school shootings, random killings, political discourse, natural disasters, etc. it is becoming very difficult to ignore the fact that so many people are suffering.
Thanksgiving is the perfect time to sit back and count your blessings. First of all, it is important to be grateful for all of the positive things in your life. It helps to diminish the things we worry about that really are not all that important.
When considering all of the thing in your life that you are thankful for, don’t forget to include the lifestyle. For those of us who are fortunate enough to be in the lifestyle, do we tend to take it for granted? Imagine how many of your friends and colleagues would like to spend just one evening in your shoes! Swing clubs, private parties, cruises, take overs, resorts, you name it! For most people, once you have experienced the lifestyle, you do not want to be out. Why is that? What is so special about the lifestyle?
What comes to mind for most people would probably be the sex. The sex is what makes the lifestyle so special. Being able to have an open marriage and sleep with others has got to be the best thing ever! Right? Sure, sex plays a big part in the lifestyle, but that is not what makes it the most special.
Besides the sex, what is so great about the lifestyle? Most importantly, it would have to be the people. The lifestyle is the only place where you will always be surrounded by people who just want to have a good time. There is a time and a place for serious conversations and complaining about all of the world’s problems, but not here. Swinger events are about joy. People do not want to spend their day or night thinking about the latest school shooting or the political problems of the world. The lifestyle is a place to put that aside and enjoy yourself.
People who are in the lifestyle tend to be very open minded. That extends far beyond their mentality towards sex. Most people are not racist, homophobic, prejudiced or judgmental. Swing clubs are home to every race, religion and gender. People are welcoming and warm.
The bottom line? As you sit around the table and gives thanks for everything in your life that you are grateful for, don’t forget to include the lifestyle. Perhaps you do not want to say that out loud. Simply give your partner that look and they will know what you’re thinking!
Happy Thanksgiving from Partners ID!! Enjoy your turkey!
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