Dear Partners ID,
We often read your blogs and always enjoy the stories about how other swingers have met each other because of your jewelry. I have to admit, we were not even in the lifestyle when we first came across your website. We found it because we were researching swinging to decide if seemed like a good fit for us.
One of your blogs popped up when we first began our search and we liked Penny’s tongue in cheek style of writing. We have been reading them ever since.
My wife and I are in our mid-fifties and have been married for a little over 20 years. We have one son who no longer lives at home so we are now essentially empty nesters. Sex has always been an important part of our relationship, so it was natural for us to look for something erotic that we could do as a couple.
When we investigated swinging, we were totally shocked to read so many forums debating what age is too old to swing. I, for one, imagined swinging was something for older couples who had been married for many years. Baby boomers came to mind when I thought of swingers. After all, isn’t swinging something couples do to spice up their marriage?
Clearly, I was wrong. Swingers seem to range in age from 20s through 60s (and even 70s). Wow! So we had to hit the reset button and try to open our minds to what swinging actually encompasses.
We began checking out some swinger dating sites and looked to see if there were any swing clubs within a reasonable distance to our home. All the while, my wife and I couldn’t help but wonder if we weren’t actually already friends with swingers. Would we know?
Next, we bought a necklace for each of us and wore them every time we went out.
Well, it didn’t take long! The second weekend after receiving the jewelry, we wore our necklaces to a friend’s housewarming party. A couple we have known for at least 5 or 6 years approached us not long after we arrived. They kissed us hello and the woman turned to her husband and said, “I knew it!”
She moved close to my wife and fondled the pendant which was hanging from her necklace. We both looked at them, hoping we understood what was happening.
What we discovered was that we do have friends in the lifestyle! The funny thing is that they suspected we were swingers long before we had ever thought about it.
The best part about this, is that we have friends who are now helping us to navigate the lifestyle!
Thank you for the lovely jewelry, we will keep you up to date on our new adventures!
Julie and Mark
Great Neck, NY
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