Hi Partners ID,
This story should help others realize why this jewelry is important. Everyone in the lifestyle spends so much time trying to find other swingers. Half the time, they are right under your nose, you just don’t realize it!
My wife and I are big football fans. Having both grown up in the same state, we are fortunate to root for the same team. Our three boys are also very big fans of the sport as well. For years we had 5 season tickets and never missed a game. We tailgated before every game and never left before it was over.
Now that our sons are grown and have lives of their own, it is just the two of us attending games. We still enjoy tailgating and have met many people over the years who do the same.
Here’s the part you are waiting for. As we have met many couples over the years at football games, we have had our suspicions about which ones might be in the lifestyle. Although we have always prided ourselves on having an ability to pick out the swingers, this was not a place we wanted to take the chance. We tried dropping hints, using the term vanilla, etc., but no bites from any of the couples we suspected. It got to the point that my wife wanted to simply ask two of the couples. She was so sure that they were both in the lifestyle. I begged her not to out us to this group just in case she was wrong.
Many couples at our local swing club wear Partners ID jewelry. Having admired it for so long, we decided to each buy a piece. As we know by now, most swingers are aware of your jewelry and so we decided to wear ours to a football game. We made sure it was easy for other people to see it during the tailgating party. We made it a point to speak with all the couples we had suspected might be in the lifestyle. Nothing! I had a moment when someone admired it but I realized it was just a compliment and nothing more. It seemed pretty obvious that these couples were probably not swingers.
During the game, I left my wife to go the restroom. When I returned, a woman was sitting in my seat chatting with my wife. When she saw me she jumped up. She took out her cellphone and handed it to my wife, who inputted her number and said we would be in touch. My wife introduced me to the woman before she quickly returned to her own seat.
Guess what, she saw the jewelry! They have had the seats a few rows in front of us for 7 years and had often waved to us. Although, prior to today, we had no way of knowing, they are swingers!
We did meet them for drinks the following weekend and they are a super couple. It turns out, this couple noticed us about 5 years ago. They had no idea we were in the lifestyle and had no intentions of ever asking. It was the jewelry that told them that we are swingers! There is no question that we will see them again soon.
The most unfortunate part of this story is that it made us think about all of the missed opportunities. Obviously this is not the only time we have been around other swingers and simply had no way of knowing.
We now wear it everyday and look forward to discovering who else we have been overlooking all of this time!
Thanks for listening!
David and Kate
See the beautiful jewelry David and Kate were wearing here: https://www.swingersjewelry.net/jewelry-for-swingers/