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Dressing to go to a club
October 11, 2017
10:43 am
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Ok, I will admit I can be a bit old school when it comes to hygiene and manners, neither for which I will ever apologize. My parents taught me to always put my best foot forward; they taught us to always be clean and look nice. Here's my question: why on earth do some people show up in a swing club looking like they just rolled out of bed? Are these people seriously thinking that someone will want to have sex with them? I prefer not to get close enough to know whether or not these people have bothered to shower or brush their teeth, but I for one, will never know. Why would people do this?

October 22, 2017
10:41 am
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LOL. It's true. At first I was going to say you see that everywhere but what you said is true. Who would want to play with these people? Not to be mean, but we have seen couples in their 80s in a club we visit. Same question about who is going to play with them? If there was a crowd of older people I would understand, but there is not.
There is really no answer to your question except to scratch my head and shake it back and forth!

November 2, 2017
8:23 am
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I don't think I ever noticed homeless people where I hang out so I can't comment on that. Everyone seems to clean and presentable enough for me.
As far as 80 year olds in a swing club I say good for them! It means my career as a swinger has many more years ahead of me!

December 4, 2017
12:45 pm
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I have to admit that I have seen a few people like this both at swing clubs and out in the vanilla world. Truth is, I never really thought about it until I read your post. You are so right! Who in their right mind would want to think about touching someone who isn't clean? If I see an unkepmt person on the street I don't pay them much mind, but in a swinger environment what on earth are they thinking? Heck i won't even go if my legs aren't freshly shaved!

As for the 80 year olds, I say power to em! Happy to think I will still have a sex drive at 80 and that there will be others for us to play with!

January 2, 2018
5:30 pm
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OMG we were at a very upscale swing club for NYE. Spent $200 to get in and we are both very dressed up. Along comes this couple wearing jeans and flip flops and guess what? They let them in!!! I thought the club showed very poor judgement in not enforcing a dress code.

We don't mingle with couples who don't think they have to be clean and well groomed. Would hate to see what's going on under the clothing...

January 19, 2018
8:40 am
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Hey funcple maybe that couple isn't rich and that is the clothing they can afford.

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