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Why do we refer to single men as swingers? I mean really?!
January 10, 2019
9:15 am
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Why do we call single men looking for a simple lay, swingers? Let’s be real, swingers are couples, no? Isn’t that by definition what the word means? Couples who swap? Help me out here, this makes no sense. My husband and I have noticed that the amount of single men in a swing club is staggering! Don’t they limit the numbers?

January 11, 2019
11:03 am
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Haha, you sound like my wife. Although she enjoys MMF, she agrees. These men are not swingers, just guys who have figured it out. No comittment, no flowers, no romance, etc. Take it out, put it in, and leave. Don’t even need to know the lady’s name.

Anyone? Are these guys swingers? I don’t think so.

January 14, 2019
8:36 am
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March 1, 2017
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Let’s try to be a little open minded here. Not everyone is the same and that goes for single men as well. While I agree that some single men might be less than desirable, I have been known to spend time alone in a swing club. I have a good job, I’m educated and clean. I dress well and enjoy meeting new people. I am also bisexual. The club allows me the opportunity to have sex with both men and women and this is not easy to find outside of a swinger environment. I consider myself a swinger because I enjoy the warmth of the swinging club and its people. I am not looking for a quick shot and then run. I like to get to know the couples I play with and have a relationship with them for the evening.
Please don’t judge all single men as though they are the same. It’s unfair and hurts many good men. Take the time to get to know some of them and you’ll be surprised!

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