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Is kissing too personal when swinging?
July 15, 2016
11:57 am
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steph69
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How do you feel about kissing when swinging? I was playing with a girl the other night and went to kiss her. She actually turned my face and kissed my cheek. She said she was not open to that. I had a very hard time maintaining my erection after that! WTF?

July 15, 2016
1:39 pm
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I think it's very situational.
I prefer kissing the ladies, but if there not into, it doesn't effect my performance.

The whole Don Juan sensuality works most of the time, the time it doesn't she needs to bite the pillow Laugh

September 9, 2016
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I think kissing is almost impossible to avoid. It would seem very cold and impersonal if I were playing with someone who wouldn't kiss. Deal breaker for me.

February 6, 2017
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Why is kissing such a big deal? I have heard people talking about this at just about every party we have been to and can't figure out why it's ok to give your husband a blow job but I can't kiss him.. WTF?

February 6, 2017
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I agree people. Peace and love is what it's all about! Kissing is a beautiful thing and a prelude to something more intimate. Without kissing it's hard to get started!
Funny you should mention about blow jobs getting the green light and kissing being where they draw the line. A woman I know was quite fond of gang bangs. The more the merrier and clearly she had no hard and fast rules regarding the men or what they wanted. She was doing 3 to 4 guys at a time, one in each hole. Her husband used to check his email while he waited for her on the side of the bed. One day a woman walks up to him and starts kissing him. He responds, next thing you know his wife is on her feet (tossing 4 guys aside) and demanding they leave. You could hear her yelling at him in the locker room that kissing is off limits. What?!

February 7, 2017
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I will speak for my wife and myself. We have met couples who say kissing is off the table and that turns us both off right away. I am confused about this too, you have no problem watching me screw your wife but if I try to kiss her, we are finished?! My wife says it's hard to get started if you don't kiss. She doesn't like when guys just go for the gold. It's like losing foreplay. Doesn't work for us at all.

February 7, 2017
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I love to kiss but I do understand that couples have to have boundaries. For me if a woman or a man does not like kissing I will repsect that and avoid that. It is not necessary for me to kiss to get turned on. It can be very intimate and for that reason I can understand the need for some couples to say no. If you think about it, often times you see people locked in a passionate embrace and it gives you the feeling that they can't get enough of each other. That would make sense that their partner would feel uncomfortable with that.

Why the monkey? Because I'm a real swinger.

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