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Hall pass
April 29, 2016
12:25 pm

I'm so glad to see the bug is fixed for the backroom! Welcome back peeps!

Anyways, I read Penny's blog (I read them all) on hall passes and thought it was an interesting topic. My wife and I always play together but have talked about playing in separate rooms. I have no problem with this but she is less enthusiastic. She is afraid that the level of intimacy is higher if you are alone with someone.
What do you think? Is this looking for trouble?

May 2, 2016
11:17 am
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We have seen couples move on from playing alone to playing apart. My personal observation is that they love it at first but seem less connected over time. I see them pursuing separate people from different couples and I don't like that. Probably best to think "if it ain't broken, don't fix it"

May 2, 2016
4:54 pm
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June 5, 2015
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I always try to understand why people can never be satisfied. Think about it: you finally get your partner to agree to try the lifestyle. Then you get them to agree to soft swap, then full swap and yet that's not enough. Now it has to be playing in separate rooms. What's next, playing at separate parties? This is where I find swinging dangerous. People need to learn to stop pushing the envelope and just enjoy what they have!

May 2, 2016
5:40 pm

Sorry guys but I don't agree with you. I drive trucks long distance and am on the road for weeks at a time. I been married for over 35 years and love my wife. We have been swingers for a long time but there ain't much clubs or nothing around where we live. My wife has no problems with me playing when i'm on the road. I also got no problem with her playing when i'm not around. We love each other and its ok for us because this way nobody has to be cheating.

May 5, 2016
8:55 am

Hey JJ your case is different than most I think. For you it seems like a better alternative than looking for prostitutes! I'm wondering more about couples who live and play together. I work, come home, have dinner with my wife and on weekends check out lifestyle activities together. For right now all I'm talking about is playing with other people under the same roof but in different rooms. We have never played with other people except when we are together. The thought of playing with someone when my wife is not next to me is a little exciting but seems to make her very uncomfortable. It's almost like she feels like I would be cheating on her somehow. Help!

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