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Guys touching without asking permission
December 21, 2015
5:12 pm
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We were recently invited to a party at someone's house and as it was a lifestyle party I was dressed in a short sexy skirt with nothing underneath. I am at the bar pouring myself a glass of wine and this older guy I know comes up behind and starts massaging my butt. I moved forward to get away from his hand and turned to see who it was. It was a guy I know (but would never play with) and he was drunk. He kept putting his hand up my skirt and I had all I could do to not turn around and punch him in the face.
Would that be wrong if I had?

December 21, 2015
6:05 pm
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Haha you're so funny! No, I think it would be perfectly acceptable to punch someone like that in the face. Except that he was drunk so you might really hurt him. Other than that I don't see any reason why not.

December 22, 2015
8:13 am
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Anthony
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I'm trying to decide if you girls are joking. I assume you are but I need to know! Nobody should touch anybody in any environment without permission. I would never touch a girl in the lifestyle or out of othe lifestyle without knowing her well enough. My wife tells me that there are certain guys she knows in the lifestyle who do touch her but she lets them get away with it because she knows them.
I will say that if a stranger touched her I would probably do the same thing, punch them in the face!

December 22, 2015
8:38 am
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Happy holidays to all of you. I'm home and relaxing for the holidays. I can tell you that if someome touched my wife without her permission he would be in some serious trouble. Even if you know the guy it doeosn't give him the right to do what he did. No question I have seen guys over step their boundaries both in and out of the lifestyle but it ain't right.
Right now we are planning a swinger party for new years. Should be awesome. Be safe all of you.

December 22, 2015
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Surely you are all joking. It is never acceptable to hit someone and it certainly does not solve any problems. If a gentleman touches you inappropriately and you wish for him to stop, why not just confront him. If it were me, I would speak rather loudly and insist that he stop right away and apologize for his behavior. If he feels humiliated or embarrassed perhaps it would keep him from trying it next time or with someone else. If you punch him he can press charges and that is certainly not going to help anyone.

December 22, 2015
12:54 pm
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Linda you sound like my father, "You should try to reason with someone instead of resorting to using your fists". He used to say that to my brother all the time and I (I'm the female of the couple) thought it was bad advice. I used to tell him to punch the guys lights out if someone picked on him.

Jennifer said:
We were recently invited to a party at someone's house and as it was a lifestyle party I was dressed in a short sexy skirt with nothing underneath. I am at the bar pouring myself a glass of wine and this older guy I know comes up behind and starts massaging my butt. I moved forward to get away from his hand and turned to see who it was. It was a guy I know (but would never play with) and he was drunk. He kept putting his hand up my skirt and I had all I could do to not turn around and punch him in the face.
Would that be wrong if I had?

As for Jennifer I think if someone doesn't want to be touched (as in punched in the face or kicked between the legs) then he should keep his hands to himself.

December 29, 2015
9:27 am
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You guys are great. Linda you sound like you're from another generation altogether. It's rare to meet someone in the lifestyle who is so uptight. Obviously I was not really asking if I would punch him in the face in the literal sense but I do think being rough with the guy would be the right thing to do. If my husband was near by at the time I would have let him handle it. He would have let the guy know that it was not ok by roughing him up a little. If someone touches you first they are obviously ok with being physical right? So why not touch them in a way they wouldn't welcome. Smiling and asking them politely to have manners is not going to help the next girl. Sorry Linda I think you need to get with the times.

December 29, 2015
8:29 pm
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I love it! It's not just me. If Linda has something to say it always makes me cringe.
Thanks for clearing that up, I had a hard time imagining you meant that in the literal sense. I would totally put my hands on a guy if he touched my wife and she was not ok with it. I agree that if a guy doesn't want to be roughed up he should keep his hands to himself. I don't agree that you should try to explain that it's not the proper thing to do. (HAHAHAHAHA). Excuse me sir but it's impolite to touch a lady without asking (said no one ever).

May 9, 2016
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I was thinking about gentlemen when I wrote that, not pigs.

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