July 15, 2016
couldn't find one so I created one.
Me and my wife have been married (to each other) for over 40 yrs, and have been swinging, for well before we were married. We are now both 62 and our swinging days seem to be over. Not necessarily by our choice its just that the opportunity and people that want to swing with us just are not out there. However we have a great deal of experience and if there an interest are willing to share it. We have played at home, at clubs, house parties, with other couples, with the ever elusive unicorn, and at all out orgies. Over the years we have seen the lifestyle go through some dramatic changes, that seem to be primary based the mean age of the swingers over time.
Doug & Linda
Hey Doug and Linda!
Nice to hear your story! We can always use a voice of experience!
I'm sad to hear that you feel your swinging days are over. We have a group of friends, sadly they live in California, but they are all over 65 and still swinging. What they told us what that their days in swing clubs are over but they have turned to private parties. They are very selective about who they invite but told us the couples must be over 60. They are less concerned with looks and more concerned with attitude. They want easy going couples who are not going to create any drama. You might look on sites like SDC to try to find your niche.
You guys sound awesome and I would love to hear that you found your group!
Good luck!! ~ Jenn
February 2, 2016
Hey Doug and Linda,
I don't think swingers are real judgmental and so I can't understand why you are out. Like jennifer says i think from my own experience too that we tend to like people who are our own age mostly. I don't want to play with no one who is like more than 5 or 10 years older or younger than me. I don't care so much about whether the girl is heavy or thin or how big her boobs are. I like friendly people who like to have fun. Thats all i ever look for. Good luck guys but don't give up!
June 5, 2015
July 15, 2016
Too picky, LOL no. As we have gotten older it has just gotten harder and harder to find folks that want to play, And the friends that we have in the lifestyle have dropped out. For many reasons. Some have medical issues (fighting cancer), or the guy can't function even with Viagra, but most of all the ladies have lost interest in sex and is done with swinging. We are still interested but the effort has gone up exponentially in trying to hook up with someone new. Think the difficulty its primary our age. Folks think that we have the issues that I pointed out above, but we don't. What is interesting is that over the years we have played with folks of any age. In our 50's we were still playing with couples in there 20's. and even with a couple in there 70's. (meet at a new year's party) so we never thought it would be an issue with us but it seems we were wrong.
Do you live in a smaller area where swinging is limited to the same group? I know in some of the more remote areas it can be harder to find new people. Have you guys ever tried online or a resort like Hedo?
We are pretty open to people older and younger but that can be very situational. We won't approach young couples but if they approach us we will be happy to play. Older couples are fine with us as long as they appeal to us (same as any other couple really).
Do you guys go to swing clubs or take overs or what? Any meet and greets where you are?
July 15, 2016
We are lifetime members on SLS, as Luving_it and not too far from us is a club we like (The Cottage, in PA) but its been almost a year since we have been there. As far as clubs go we found out a long time a go, that its only worth going if you already have a date and plan on meeting someone there. Over the years we have been there many times, the only time we had a good time was when we were meeting folks we already knew. Now if you looking for just a man there great. We cerebrated her birthday there one year. She was serviced by a dozen guys, and had a great time. But if you are interested in females, or a couple where the female plays (OK we have found several couples where she just wants to watch him with you wife, "NOT Interested in that" ) we have never had any luck with that. We are still very interested in playing, and sharing here has made us want to start looking again, will have to let you know how it goes.
P.S. IF anyone here in on SLS and wants to see our photos let us know your username, and we will open our profile.
We are also on AFF as Passion_77, Now an unpaid member.
Have you ever tried SDC. Everyone including myself thinks that is the better choice. We have been to many clubs and meet and greets for both groups, and clearly SDC brings out the real crowd. We also found that we had very little response from couples on SLS. Strange but true. We are not on either site anymore because where we live is pretty busy on its own. We are on the west coast of florida and when we get bored with that we head to the other coast. Good luck and don't give up!
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