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What's your feeling about bi men?
April 5, 2018
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Copter00
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I never thought about men in my life but now that we are in the lifestyle I find myself very bi curious.. How do most people feel about this? More importantly is how do you find out which guys would be cool with it?

May 1, 2018
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I think you are not alone for this! Although I don't really think a swing club is the place for this, we have heard men talking about having been approached while they were in a private area with another couple. They all (of course) deny that they did it, they were in situations where other men touched them. I would think it would be better to talk about it before hand, no?

May 1, 2018
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I love having sex with bi men and my guy, it's so hot. The funny thing about "straight men" is when they say "it's not gay if my wife is there". Uh, sorry, I don't agree. My guy isn't gay but he totally has gay tendencies! I'm down with that but let's call it what it is! It's never a good idea to surprise a man by touching him. Men can be violent in a situation like this, we have seen it. Better to have a conversation about it before and see how the couple reacts.

May 2, 2018
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Let me just say that a swing club is not the place for this. If you want gay sex go to a gay club. I would have no trouble punching a guy in the face if he touched me. Hell, don't even ask me! I am not there to be with some gay guy and it would offend me if he tried to touch me. IF your smart, you won't try it.

May 2, 2018
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Nothing like a macho man to give his two cents. I wonder if your wife would "punch a woman in the face" if she tried to touch her. Why the double standard? We speak about how open minded and uninhibited swingers are yet when faced with situations such as this, some people act in ways that are shameful. How is this open minded? While I am the first to agree that nobody should touch anybody without their consent, a polite no thank you would suffice, no? After all, if someone finds you attractive, isn't that a compliment? Why is this situation so different? We have been led to believe that men who are gay should remain in private while two women should be grandstanded. What is that about?

May 3, 2018
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texascpl said ;
Let me just say that a swing club is not the place for this. If you want gay sex go to a gay club. I would have no trouble punching a guy in the face if he touched me. Hell, don't even ask me! I am not there to be with some gay guy and it would offend me if he tried to touch me. IF your smart, you won't try it. 

This is exactly the type of thing I'm afraid of. How am I supposed to know whiich guy might flip out? I was thinking maybe the best thing to do is to try to find couples online that might be interested. Anyone have any idea how to go about this?

May 4, 2018
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I would suggest you try one of the online sites like SDC or SLS and go from there. Be upfront about what you're looking for and see if you can find someone. Like you see with Texascl, it can be dangerous to try to guess.

May 6, 2018
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I'm kinda shocked at how guys are so terrified of experimenting with each other. The sexual energy that you feel from another man's cock is like nothing else I have ever experienced. You can't be apart of true group sex if you don't partake in sex with other men in the group. I think men would be very surprised at the feel and taste of another man in his mouth as well as the way in which a man will suck your cock. It is an experience that men deny themselves of and it is a shame.

It's quite simple to find other men if you look for them on swinger dating sites or even Craigs list. I have had a lot of luck with Kasidie. I highly recommend you find someone and try it!

May 28, 2019
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Linda said
Nothing like a macho man to give his two cents. I wonder if your wife would "punch a woman in the face" if she tried to touch her. Why the double standard? We speak about how open minded and uninhibited swingers are yet when faced with situations such as this, some people act in ways that are shameful. How is this open minded? While I am the first to agree that nobody should touch anybody without their consent, a polite no thank you would suffice, no? After all, if someone finds you attractive, isn't that a compliment? Why is this situation so different? We have been led to believe that men who are gay should remain in private while two women should be grandstanded. What is that about?  

Exactly Linda, and well spoken.

Good for the goose good for the gander, the principles are the same.

However because there is a double standard and some men can be very violent if touched... the safe mode is talk first or don't even dare.

Equality means equality but wisdom dioctates discernment

May 28, 2019
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crayola34 said
I'm kinda shocked at how guys are so terrified of experimenting with each other. The sexual energy that you feel from another man's cock is like nothing else I have ever experienced. You can't be apart of true group sex if you don't partake in sex with other men in the group. I think men would be very surprised at the feel and taste of another man in his mouth as well as the way in which a man will suck your cock. It is an experience that men deny themselves of and it is a shame.

It's quite simple to find other men if you look for them on swinger dating sites or even Craigs list. I have had a lot of luck with Kasidie. I highly recommend you find someone and try it!  

IN truth, if any man has masturbated, he is in a sense gay or bi, because he has played with a male, even though its he HIMSELF.

In truth, almost all heterosexual porn shows male genitalia, meaning again, a so called macho man should be used to seeing other men, unless he has had his eyes closed.

But as mentioned if they have zero attraction so be it, not a problem, just don't go punching another guy because your elbows touched inadvertently.

May 30, 2019
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Wow, never thought about what David Jay said! Men totally touch themselves all the time! My hubby is not into male play but has been touched (without his consent) a few times in the past. He simply removed the man's hand and continued playing. Truth is, I don't think we have reached the point where men can touch each other without permission. Honestly, I prefer when anyone asks me before touching me, it's the polite thing to do.

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