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How do we move forward?
September 22, 2020
3:39 pm
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Josh
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My wife and I tried parts of the lifestyle. We had a couple that we swapped with a couple of times. We the male join us. There was a different male that joined us. We found out that he was only interested in me. Lastly we had another couple that we were supposed to have separate 3 somes with ( as in sending our wife over to the others house). My joined them and the other wife chickened out when it was her turn. When I ask my wife about doing stuff with other people she says if the right couple comes along. She is afraid of meeting people from the internet and she doesn’t want to go to a swingers club. We only hang out with the same group of vanilla people. We hinted at swinging and they were not interested. Question is how do I get my wife to take the next step or how can we meet new couples to hook up with?

September 22, 2020
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Hi Josh! Have you ever tried asking her to go to a resort? I would recommend a place like Temptations in Mexico because it is not necessarily for only swingers. While there are swingers who go there, Temptations attracts a lot of couples like yourself. Those who are warm to the idea but not sure they are ready to jump in. If she gets up the nerve it is available to you but not a necessity.
Good luck!

September 23, 2020
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I can assure you there is zero chance of meeting someone at home. To rule out the internet and swing clubs narrows things down a lot. I guess you could try meet and greets but quite honestly that's more complicated than a swing club. I agree with Vanessa about lifestyle hotels but that's kind of a big commitment.

I can tell you that if you can get her to go to a club one night "just to look", she might change her mind. They sound a whole lot scarier than they actually are.

September 28, 2020
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Thanks for the help. I will try some of those things. Maybe the best chance is some form of RV resort in the northeast. That wouldn’t be out of the ordinary for us. Is there something like that does anyone know?

September 29, 2020
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How far north are we talking? I do know there is a nude RV park in Canada (somewhere near Drummondville I believe. I have a friend who lives in NJ, maybe she can help. I will ask and let you know what I can find out.

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