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When you really don't like someone
March 29, 2019
8:48 am
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Help! What do you do when there is someone who you see at every lifestyle event that you can't stand? I swear I want to poke her eyes out. She's loud, she's obnoxious and she thinks every event is her party and we are all there to celebrate her. It's really getting on my nerves. Any suggestions?

April 7, 2019
11:53 am
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Oh I love me a good cat fight! That's sexy honey! Nah, I'm kidding. Like my wife always says to my daughter, "You're letting that girl take up space in your head!" Stop noticing her and concentrate on making your own fun. There's always going to be people you don't like whether they are co-workers or neighbors! There's not much you can do but ignore her.

April 9, 2019
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I agree with Tex that there will always be people you don't like. Is she someone you know or have to interact with? It can be super irritating when you have to keep seeing someone you don't like, especially when you're there for fun! Why not offer a few more drinks, maybe she'll pass out! LOL

April 18, 2019
3:28 pm
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With the exception of small private parties, it is rare to see a small group of swingers. Why can't you simply avoid her?

December 4, 2020
11:40 am
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I had to go back and look for this as I remembered someone asking this a long time ago. When I first read it I couldn't think of anyone I had met in the lifestyle that I really didn't like.

Well....those days are over. OMG there is a woman that I cannot stand! She sounds like the same woman you described. She's loud and obnoxious and does think the club revolves around her! The club we go to is rather large but she and her bf walk around all night making sure everyone knows they are there. I have tried ignoring her but she won't allow that. I feel like if she thinks you don't like her, she makes more of an effort to be close to where you are sitting. I don't know how to help you, just wanted to let you know you are not alone!

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