Over breakfast this morning, as is my habit, I scanned online articles looking for one of interest. I came across an article discussing how old the writer believes is too old to go to a nightclub. Wondering just how shocked I would find the answer, I opened it up and scrolled down to find the magic number.
Ok, play along and think of what age this survey came up with. I will admit, this number came as a bit of shock to me. Ready? Surprisingly, the age was 37! The article explains that people over the age of 37 are too old to go to a nightclub. It goes on to say that the majority of people over the age of 30 would simply prefer to stay home.
Obviously, these people are not in the lifestyle. Not only the ones who are too old at 37 to go clubbing but also the ones over 30 who prefer to stay home. For those of you who are not in the lifestyle, I can assure you that neither of these statistics applies to swing clubs.
In light of these statistics, clearly, swingers did not get this memo. The majority of people at a swing club are over the age of 40. Although there are many people under age 40, they do not make up the majority.
Why are swing clubs so appealing to the “older crowd”? In the past, swing clubs were the playgrounds for older, married couples. Today, with this group of people who feel too old for night clubs, this has completely changed.
Due to the above finding, perhaps seeking out an age-appropriate alternative is what forces people to look for something different. This is understandable, but why go to a swing club, especially if you are not a swinger?
For those who have been to a swing club, the difference is clear immediately. First of all, people in swing clubs are friendly. It is very easy to meet other people. I can’t say the same about a night club. Most night clubs are filled with very young people who prefer to take selfies than to mingle.
Swing clubs are designed to provide maximum comfort for their customers. In a nightclub, it can be very difficult to get a drink. It seems they never have an adequate number of bartenders to serve their customers. Swing clubs often boast more than one bar and generally have attendants serving customers from their seats around the club. No need to fight the crowds to get a drink.
In general, swing clubs offer dinner and some even serve breakfast, which is included in the price of entry. Many swing clubs require you to bring your own bottle. This means your drinks are made exactly how you like them. Unlike most bars and clubs, no skimping on the liquor as the bottle belongs to you.
Swing clubs are always members-only clubs. This allows them to have every guest register at the front desk with their identification. It’s comforting to know that there are no strangers.
The majority of swing clubs have theme nights and party nights. This creates an atmosphere of cohesion and celebration. There are also contests and often raffles and giveaways. Swing clubs work hard to bring people together and they make it easy each other.
For the most part, swing clubs attract people who are looking to meet others. Most people are friendly and warm. It is not uncommon for people to offer to make room on a couch to allow more people to squeeze in. Night clubs are not known for their warm and fuzzy atmosphere, while swing clubs are.
Obviously, swing clubs are more erotic and sexual than a regular night club. Although you will see some degree of sexy dancing and interacting at a nightclub, you cannot compare that to what you can see in a swing club. The main difference is that the interactions are often between couples.
With this in mind, if the twenty-something crowd spent a night in a swing club, they would age out sooner. Swing clubs allow people to enjoy themselves without judgment. You can dress as sexy as you like at any age without judgment from others. If you watch the dance floor, you will see couples joining each other mid-dance and couples bringing singles in to join them as well.
Swing clubs boast an atmosphere of inclusion and warmth. It is kind of a hands-on “Cheers” environment. It’s a place where if you are a regular, everybody knows your name. Unlike most clubs, strangers are met with a hug or a kiss.
In view of this, why would anyone choose a night club? And I only talked about what happens in the front of the club….
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