A coworker recently asked what I had done over the weekend. Without thinking I said, “A gang bang and 2 very sexy women.” When I realized what I had said and I saw the look on my coworkers face, I went into panic mode. Thankfully, that’s when I woke up from this nightmare!
Imagine if swingers could actually be honest with people about how we spend our time. So often people comment on how I stay in good shape or the fact that my hair or nails are always impeccable. Well, yea, I’m a swinger! I spend every weekend at a swing club and many weekends at a nude beach. It is important for me to look good!
Maybe people who are in the swinger lifestyle are more in tune with their bodies because we don’t keep them covered very often. Wearing sexy clothing and shoes are one of the fun aspects of going out to swing clubs. Although on occasion you will spot a woman in jeans and flip flops, it is very rare. Most swingers dress to impress.
Swinging is a lot like dating. The goal is to find others with whom to play. Obviously, like when you are dating, you want to put your best foot forward. Looking good is certainly a plus.
For those not in the lifestyle, it is easy to stop trying to impress your significant other. They see you at your best and they see you at your worst and they still love you. Perhaps this can cause people to become complacent. After all, once you have settled in with a partner, there are more important things to worry about, right?
Not for swingers!
When we first entered the lifestyle I was shocked by how much younger swingers seemed. I can remember meeting couples who were closer to my parent’s age than my own. It was amazing how fit and sexy they were. Not to mention how open-minded their attitudes were! I could only attribute these characteristics to the fact that they were in the lifestyle.
The lifestyle takes sex from being an obligation to the exciting fun it was when you first met. It turns fantasies into realities! Lifestyle vacations are like sleep-away camp. All of your friends are there to have fun together.
The lifestyle creates a very busy social life for people who are looking to get involved. Between meet and greets, parties, swing clubs, hotel takeovers, cruises, and lifestyle resorts there is a lot going on! Even simply having dinner with lifestyle friends is different. The conversations are sexier and everyone is looking to have a good time.
Life is exciting when you have things to look forward to. That is not to say that vanilla people don’t have things to look forward to; obviously, they do. What swingers look forward to are endless events and parties. From Sunday Funday to Saturday night specials, every day is a party! There are many swingers who have already booked cruises for 2021 and beyond!
It seems that swingers have really found the fountain of youth. Life can be difficult and stressful but when we put on our swinger hats it is all about fun. The serious stuff can wait until the next morning!
Perhaps those in the swinger lifestyle seem younger than their vanilla counterparts for good reasons. They are active, they are free and they have endless opportunities for fun to look forward to.
Exploring your fantasies and watching your spouse do the same can be intoxicating! Flirting with others, having sex with different people all while maintaining a loving relationship with your spouse is beyond compare. When life is this much fun, who wants to get old?