Swinging can sometimes be a beautiful expression of love.

Swinging couple in bed wearing Partners ID jewelry



Swinging can sometimes be a beautiful expression of love.  I have no doubt that when some people see this title and they are not in the lifestyle, it will conjure up an image of a 1960s love fest; something reminiscent of Woodstock.  This really could not be farther from my point.

I met a couple last night while at a swing club and speaking with them really opened my eyes to how love can play a part in swinging.  This couple met when they were kids and were married before they even graduated from high school.  They entered the lifestyle as a mutual decision because neither had ever had sex with anyone else and as a couple they were honest enough to express their curiosity.  

I don’t believe that most people can be this honest with their spouse.  If couples were able to have this level of honest communication, there would be a lot less infidelity and a lot more swingers!

This couple is adorable to listen to.  The woman told us that prior to the lifestyle, she had not realized that her husband was not only a good lover but he was well endowed!  She had nothing to compare him with prior to her first experience as a swinger.  He echoed a similar sentiment and it made me realize how swinging has really helped to elevate their relationship to a whole new level. 

This is an aspect of swinging that is lost to the vanilla world.  Without having these experiences, they cannot relate to the degree of honesty and trust that is needed to do this.  To have an honest conversation with your spouse about having a desire to have sex with someone else is not easy.  We all already know this, as we see time and time again on all of the forums, where newcomers are asking how to bring up the subject to their significant other.   Most people would be highly insulted and hurt to hear their partner admit that they would like to try having sex with someone else.  The initial reaction is to think something is wrong with you and that is why your partner is seeking something else.  The truth is, if your partner didn’t love and respect you, they would do what most people who are not in the lifestyle do, they would simply do it behind your back.  When your partner wants to include you in this, it is only because they love and respect you.  When done correctly, the lifestyle can bring couples closer than ever.   

Love and sex are both wonderful and when the two are not mutually exclusive, anything is possible.

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Are there any swingers in Hong Kong? The answer is yes, just ask this couple.



Couple living in Hong Kong wearing Partners ID jewelry


Dear Partners ID,

Nǐmén hǎo! This is hello in Cantonese. We are Lidia and Sam and we live in Hong Kong. We had to move for business a few years ago. We moved from California almost 2 years ago when my husband was offered a job he couldn’t turn down.

We have been in the lifestyle for the past 10 years and one of the hardest things about this move was leaving our friends. As you know, lifestyle friends are very special and we couldn’t wrap our minds around having to say good bye.

One of the first things we did after getting settled into our new home was to try to discover if swinging was popular in our area. Although we did see quite a few listings for swing clubs, we were nervous to take this route. My husband was new to the company and the last thing he wanted, was to run into someone he worked with.

We did take a chance online to try to meet others for an evening of play but that was not working out so well. After a few months we were getting antsy and very much wanted to play!

I had heard about your jewelry when we were still living in California and decided to order a few pieces for us to try. I purchased a necklace for my husband and a bracelet for myself and waited for them to arrive. I wasn’t really sure that anyone in Hong Kong would actually know what it meant but figured it couldn’t hurt!

I wear my bracelet most of the time but my husband prefers to wear his only when we go out socially. We went for dinner at a trendy restaurant one evening and when we were walking to our table, a woman grabbed my arm as we passed by. I looked down and she was holding a purse with your pendant on it! I was shocked! I never thought it would be this easy! They were with another couple and said they would stop at our table before they left.

Although this particular couple is not our style to play with, they are nice people who have helped us to navigate the lifestyle! They gave us all the information that we needed to meet other swingers and told us which clubs were the best in the area.

This was a few weeks ago and we have been invited to a party (through this couple) that we will attend this weekend. We just wanted to let you know that people in Hong Kong know the jewelry and it is pretty popular here!

Thank you! You really helped us!

Hugs and kisses,

Lidia and Sam

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Packing for Naughty in Nawlins? Don’t forget your lifestyle jewelry!

Well, it’s July and swingers know what that means!  It’s time for the biggest lifestyle event all year:  Naughty in Nawlins.  This event attracts pretty much all of the well known movers and shakers in the industry plus thousands of swingers looking to have a good time.  

The Lifestyle Awards take place during this event and that brings people from all over the world to witness and take part in.  The lifestyle  awards shine a spotlight on people who are working hard to make sure the lifestyle is understood and respected.

So what does this have to do with lifestyle jewelry, after all, everyone who attends is certainly a swinger!  This is true in terms of people who attend the parties and the vast majority of those people who are staying at the host hotel, but not quite in the city itself.

Naughty in Nawlins is a bit different from some of the other lifestyle events in that people spread out around the city to find their own adventures.  Now, you realize that not everyone in the city is a swinger or has any tolerance for people in the lifestyle.  So how will you be able to detect who is apart of the group?  Very simple, if you are wearing our lifestyle jewelry, it is simple for others to spot you and know you are part of the group.  

It is not uncommon to think someone is in the lifestyle by the way they act or dress but honestly, neither is a true indicator that the person is safe to approach.  When you spot someone wearing our pendant, you know with 100% certainty that you have found a swinger.

We designed the jewelry with swingers in mind.  We wanted something beautiful that could be worn on any part of your body, could be dressed up or worn when nude and would be easy to spot by others who know what to look for.  The design makes it too complicated to google the meaning so rest assured that others will never be able to investigate the meaning of the symbol.

It’s not too late to order now and have it in time for your trip!  

Stop wondering, start playing and have a great time

Check out the jewelry here: https://www.swingersjewelry.net/jewelry-for-swingers/

If you don’t see what you like, drop as an email, we custom design pieces at no additional cost.

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Forum posts on Swinger dating sites; please people, tell us what you really think!!

shockedgirls3     Swinger dating sites are a great thing.  They help us to find other swingers in our areas or those who are local to where we travel.  They offer advice boards, swinger resort information, swing clubs, lifestyle clothing and jewelry, instant messaging and of course, forums.

I am thinking that every time I am at a loss to find a topic to write about I should click open a swinger dating site because I have discovered that these are a writer’s dream! No embellishments needed! Tell us what you really think people!

It would not surprise me at all to find people this candid if I were reading anonymous forum posts on some random websites. However, when you log onto a swinger’s dating site, you leave your member name every time you write a blog, write an email or post on the forum. Perhaps some people think they are anonymous, or maybe they just don’t care, but some responses to things people post leave me with my mouth wide open.  Please, tell us what you really think!

A member wrote on a forum the other day complaining that it is simply impossible to find a guy in the lifestyle who meets his wife’s standards. “She is gorgeous, like an 8 or 9/10,” he writes, “and she is looking for someone who looks like Channing Tatum or Rob Lowe. Believe me, she is that hot that it is fair.” He goes on to explain their dilemna that unattractive people are always hitting on them because they are both extremely hot and, after all, who can blame couples for wanting them. Unfrortunately for us plain folk, we can never meet their standards. After reading all the nasty comments it attracted I had to check out their profile. Wow! They could not find enough adjectives to describe how hot they are and how insanely difficult the lifestyle is proving for them due to a lack of suitable people to play with here on planet earth. Poor things.  The best part?  This couple frequents a swing club where we spend a fair amount of time .  Are they too hot for words?  Well let’s just say that beauty in this case, is clearly in the eye of the forum poster…  This is a perfect example of how truly “anonymous” posts really are.

Another woman wrote about a recent experience she and her husband had with another couple. Apparently they met the other couple one afternoon for coffee.  As a foursome, they decided they would meet the following weekend to play in one of the couple’s homes. As they went to leave, one woman slipped the other woman a note and asked her to read it when she got home. The note gave her a list of things the other couple was requesting of her: they wanted her fully shaved, to bring a strap on and to wear a butt plug. It went on to describe what the couple wanted to do with her when they met. The woman who received the note was asking if people thought it was strange to give a potential swinger couple a list such as this. Well, I was expecting to read answers to her question, but none were interested in what she was asking.  The first response was from a man who was furious that this other couple ignored her husband completely in the requests they had made.  He wrote that he would refuse to ever speak with them again. He wrote: “Nobody gonna make me a fool when all they want is to f*ck my wife! They gonna have to want me too!” Hmm, ok, let’s look at the next reply.  This one was also written by a man and he felt it was disrespectful as well.  “I feel this note disrespected this man and his wife.  He gave no indication that they said they were kinky or into S & M. If it were me and my wife, we would meet them for sure, but only to tell them that we find them repulsive.” Hmm… Still another male responded, “WTF? Who does this? Who goes into a swinging situation with another couple and hands them a list of demands?” One more, “Why would you reveal on a public forum what this couple was requesting from your wife? That’s not a good sign, it perhaps tells us that you kiss and tell.” Is anyone else confused by these responses?

Let’s look at one more: A woman wrote in to ask if other people had come across men with body odor ranging from bad breath to a foul smelling area down under. She wanted to know how people handle being in this situation.  She noted that by the time you become aware of the problem, it’s too late to back up. Personally, I was curious to hear the answers as I thought her question was a good one that many people would be able to relate to. First answer, and I quote, “What’s your problem? You think you smell so perfect? Let me tell you that you smell like fish!” Now there’s a helpful reply! Second person said that she should learn to breathe through her mouth so she doesn’t smell it and if that doesn’t work get some deoderant from a bathroom and spray him down. The third one told her that if something as silly as a little body odor upsets her maybe she is too delicate for the lifestyle. Hmm. After reading the responses I think I might be too delicate to post a question on the forum!

It’s really quite surprising to read such nasty responses, as generally speaking, people in the lifestyle are so supportive and warm. Do you suppose it’s just easy to be nasty when people can’t see you? Whatever the case may be, I think I won’t go on any forums looking for advise any time soon!

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